Having a little trouble getting your crush’s attention? Do you just feel like you consistently attract the wrong kind of people? Struggling to attract anyone at all?
No matter where you are in your love life — even if you’re looking to spice up your current relationship — we’ve all thought about using love spells at some point.
But do love spells work? Is it possible to make someone fall in love with you, or to simply make them pay attention to you at all, with a bit of magic? While everyone certainly has their own opinion about the power of love spells, the only real way to find out the answer is to try it yourself!
In this post, we’ll fill you in on love spells that have worked for other people or that are popular in Wicca and other magical communities.
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The Basics of Love Spells
In order to be able to answer the question, “Do love spells work?” to your own satisfaction, you first need to learn the basics of so-called “magick”.
Most witches/spellcasters don’t use love spells to force someone to fall in love with another person. This is considered by many to be more of a form of black/dark magic.
Instead, love spells help you to better facilitate your magickal intention.
This is a fancy way of saying that good love spells help you to focus your energy on the other person, connect with their subconscious, and directing their attention your way.
Think of spells as giving you a foot in the door with your crush, or letting the universe know that you’re ready to meet the right person. It’s about controlling your future, not controlling another person.
You’re letting more love into a connection that you’ve already established or are hoping to establish.
In other words?
You’ll still have to woo them with your words and actions, but they’ll be ready to be wooed.
To Get Attention
Now that we’ve established that there aren’t really “making someone love you spells,” but instead spells that allow you to attract your desired’s attention, let’s talk about how you can make that happen.
One of the most popular spells for attracting a specific person that you already know (no celebrities, you must have an established connection already) is the honey spell.
Grab some sugar cubes, a red ribbon, a piece of brown paper, brandy, and a jar of honey.
Write your name and the name of the object of your affection on the piece of paper, then set your intention around the paper. (This could be something like, “I want to look my best around him/her,” or “I want her/him to talk to me.”) Then, eat a spoonful of the honey from the jar, and place the brown paper in the jar.
Soak the cubes of sugar in brandy, surround the honey jar with the cubes, and light them.
Finish by tying the red ribbon around the honey jar.
To Spice Things Up in Your Relationship
If you’re already married or partnered and experiencing a lack of romance or passion in the bedroom, trying love spells that spice things up and rekindle old feelings is a great idea.
This spell can improve your relationship on a physical and emotional level.
Grab some bay leaves, basil, rosemary, mint, coriander, parsley, lemon juice, and water.
Mix all the spices together in a pot on your stove first, then add about an inch of the water. Boil on high, and then put in some lemon juice. Let the mixture boil for a few minutes while you set your intention and think of your loved one.
Then, pour your liquid into a jar once it’s cooled, and leave it outside for one night. Before you’re ready for romance, put a bit of the mix on your wrist, heart, and forehead.
PS: If you’re looking for more sex/love spells for a current relationship, check out this blog for more free spells.
To Find the Right Person
Tired of online dating and worried that you’re never going to meet “The One?”
If you just can’t go on one more bad date that you know won’t lead to anything special, now is the time to try a love spell to let the world know you’re ready for real love.
Luckily, this spell is a pretty simple one.
Head outside (a special place that has particular meaning to you is best) and light a small fire. Sit in front of the fire and stare into it, thinking of what you want a lover to be like and experiences that you’d like to share with them.
You should place a small basket of laurel leaves in front of you the whole time.
Then, take a handful of the laurel leaves with your left hand and throw them in the fire. Say “Laurel leaves that burn in this fire, bring me my heart’s desire.”
Do this until the fire burns out, at least three times.
Do Love Spells Work? Only Trying It Will Tell You
While we can’t answer the question, “Do love spells work?” for you, we hope that this post has given you a few options for spells to try out on your own.
Remember that the most important part of the process is to set a clear and focused intention — and to be patient.
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